Ladkiya aakhir Ladkiya hoti hai

This post is EXPLICITLY dedicated to Vandita Kapila...
and is a reply to her post Men will be Men.

I read your blog and as I already told you its war, Vandita.
I do not deny 'completely' whatever you wrote, thou It seemed a bit extreme.
There are many things that you said are not much of a justification to women's feelings rather a direct attack on male sentiments. Yes, 'sentiments', the female versions of readers of this blog may doubt my comment. They may ask, 'Since when did men have sentiments? Its just their ego thats hurt. They do not have sentiments.'
Answer me this, What makes you think so? just cuz you generally don't find a guy crying with his face in pillow, does it mean they do not have sentiments, or they are simply heartless. Readers are requested to read Vandita's blog again she mentions clearly that men too need that emotional support.

I really want to make a BOLD statement here:
Girls can never be like guys, neither guys can be like girls. After all they are far beyond what a female can ever be.

Making such a statement satisfies my ego. Making an exact opposite statement satisfies a females ego. Thats it.

Now take a look at this situation, I met a girl on my way to NOIDA, on a blueline bus. She came rushing from the front door, and asked a man sitting at the ladies seat( so called reserved for ladies) to get up. You might say there is nothing unusual in doing so. Sure its not, after all the seat has been reserved for them. Here I would like to ask the feminists, If you are so independent, so equal, why in the green hell do you ask for such reservations. Here you will find another class of people(men and women both) who would say the government has made it a rule to give them reserved seats, hence it is their RIGHT. Like all living beings women have the right to fight for their rights. Fine, I give up on this. Now tell me this, the woman on our blueline bus I mentioned, did not ask the guy to give up his seat, rather she was the rudest woman I ever saw. Her words were: 'Hey mister, dikhayi nahi deta kya? ladies seat hai.' And we get to hear men cant behave properly. I have had a particular habit, If by chance I happen to sit at the ladies side, and a women boards the bus. I always gave her my seat willingly even before she asked. Not only me, I'm sure there will be many more men like me, who do so. How many times do such men get a thanks in return for such a gesture. I never got one. A simple thanks may give the feeling of being appreciated, a feeling of having done something good. And then you say women are more understanding, well behaved etc etc...

Guys are generally assumed to be quarrelsome at least in comparison to girls. But you must have noticed you might find guys who were rivals at one time are best friends some other day. Can you say the same for girls? NO. I have never seen rival girls become friends even after having everything settled between them. There is however a strange catch. If its a guy against a girl, you will find almost all other girls in favor of the poor little girl. It never matters whose fault it is, Who the real culprit is. The truth is simply what the female says. It has happened almost everywhere till date. (Exceptions are there) To support my point, I suggest you watch the movie 'Aitraaz'.

You also say that women are more loyal than men. I'd say I agree on the fact if you consider the depth of loyalty, women do surpass men. but if you consider the count men surely surpass women. Cases of women's infidelity definitely outnumber those of men. Don't go by my word, you can google through the internet for international surveys. Its just that since our great-great ancestors used to marry many, we are disloyal. But the fact is even then they were married and the cheating was mostly done by females. So now whom do you blame.

Its the girls who enjoy the looks that boys give them, Its the girls who flaunt there bodies in skimpy clothes, Its the girls who love to be in center of attraction. and still they ask, "why do boys give so much attention to girls?"

I did not write this blog to continue the fight, thou I started by saying Its a war. I just want to say, men will be men... and ladkiyan hamesha ladkiyan rahengi...
There is no point in discussing why, how, and till when... some things in nature are meant to be like this.
Those who are not in agreement with either my blog or Vandita's blog please read the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"
Its an entertaining book, and when you start reading it you will find many things that you knew men or women do but never took notice of them.
Good Luck... :)

Dard hota hai

Ye to har koi janta hai, chot lagti hai to dard hota hai.
aur ye bhi sach hai guum chot me zyada dard hota hai.
Guum chot ka matlab, jo chot dikhayi na de par dard ki koi had na ho.
Aisi chot ka ilaaj kafi mushkil hota hai,
dawa kahan lagaye ye bhi pata nahi hota.
Par ek baat to pakki hai, aisi chot pe har koi kehta hai,
"Dard to hota hai bhai, thoda time lagega thik hone me."

Agar ye chot dil pe lagi ho to,
Aatma pe lagi ho to.
Vishwas par lagi ho to.
kya aisi chot thik ho sakti hai?
dard to hoga, kyon ki ise bhi to chot hi kehte hain,
par kya iski koi dawa hai?
"yahan bhi sirf ek jawab hai, time lagega"

Kisi paraye ke gaal par agar thappad maro, to dard hota hai,
samne wale ko gussa bhi aata hai.
marne wale ko bhi khud ke hatho me chot lagti hai.
Aur agar kisi apne, apne se zyada pyare ko maro to,
uske gaal pe chot lagti hai, aur khud ke dil ko,
thappad khan wale ko lagta hai, iski himmat kaise hui.
aur marne wala ko lagta hai, ye din hi kyon aaya.
Dard hota hai, dono ko hota hai...
par ek ki chot nazar aati hai,
aur ek guum chot ke dard se rota hai.

Gaal par agar koi thappad mare, to nishan pad jata hai.
agar dil par mare to, izzat par mare to.
Pyaar aur vishwas ke chere par jab thappad padta hai to koi nishan nahi padta,
bas dard hota hai, had se zyada dard hota hai.
kuch log is dard ko bardashat kar lete hain,
kuch log tut jate hain, aur kuch tut kar fir se judte hain.
lekin unka kya jo baar-baar tutate hain, judne ki koshish karte hain,
judte bhi hain, par sirf dobara tutne k liye.
Unko kitna dard hota hai, is baat ka koi andaza bhi nahi laga sakta,
haan par har koi ye zarur keh sakta hai,
"Dard to hota hai bhai, thoda time lagega thik hone me."

Jab baat pyaar ki hoti hai to duniya me do tarah ke log milte hain,
ek wo, jo pyaar ko sabse khubsurat cheez mante hai,
aur dusre wo, jo hamesha Love hurts ke maala japte hai.
Main ek teesri category ko bhi janta hoon,
ye wo log hain jinki soch badal chuki hai,
in logo ki nazar me pyaar k upar agar koi hota tha to sirf bhagwan.
aur aaj pyaar se bada koi jhooth hai to wo bhi bhagwan.
Aise logo ko galat samjha jata hai, kyon ki wo bhagwan pe vishwas kyon nahi rakhte,
Unhe ye samjhya jata hai ki bhagwan hai, wo kabhi galat nahi karta,
uski har faisle me kuch achcha hota hai.
yahan kuch log fir se bhagwan ke samne sir jhukaten hai,
aur inme se kuch logo ko fir se ek aur thappad milta hai.
Ab to bhawan bhi yehi kehta hai,
"Dard to hota hai bhai, thoda time lagega thik hone me."

Kisi bhi chot ke bare me ek baat pakki hai,
thik hone me time lagta hai, par thik ho jata hai.
Maine is baat se kabhi inkaar nahi kiya.
Magar main ye bhi manta hoon,
agar ek purani chot par baar-baar chot pahuchayi jaye to sharir ka hissa ban jata hai.
Ek aisa hissa jo kabhi bhi thik nahi ho sakta, hamesha dard dega.
Aur aise me insaan apne aap se bhi ek hi baat keh sakta hai,
"Dard to hota hai bhai, thoda time lagega thik hone me."

Aisi baaten sun kar bhi dard hota hai...